WINNER Vs STRUGGLER–> STRUGLER BECOMES A BETTER WINNER

Hum kis gali jaa rahe hain… Apna koi …. ♫♪♫

Recently i was listeneing to this song by “Atif-Aslam” …and i realised hw true it is…specialy fr yung gen lik ourselves…
so…….Lets start from your beginning ..
u were born on this random day of th year (wich u cleebr8 every year since then…by jumping around…distributing chocl8s and getting ur majestic royal buttocks thoroughly massaged..) and every1 was so happy wen u were born….daddy-mummy were happy…they wud b happy & proud just listening to u speak some crap… and girls used to scream (at ULTRA-sonic frequencies) at th sight of u…and fight wid each other just to take turns to hold u..or to play with u…and u can kick humever u want..and stil get away with it… and …well…life… was good..(sadly u dnt remmber it )
luk at urself now…whether u admit it or not…life is messed up and there are too many cross-connections…LITERALLY…
now ur parents get embarrased  when u speak crap ( and unless you are operah winfrey or some talk show host.. speaking crap is not a very rare thing 2 occur..! ).. girls kick ur ego wenever they want…AND get away with it…and well…
to put it in a nutshell.. we all have issues..
okay…going back to the next phase of ur life…once u started growing up and then wen u started understanding wat dreams mean… u came up with millions and zillions of them…u dream allllllll th time all over th place…u edit ur dreams like every hour and u want 2 bcum something different every second…!

now lthink about it…have u bcum anything AnyWHerE near wat u wanted to do wen u wer young.??..may b som of ur dreams were stupid but there wer others wich are still there..living in u a futil existance..cropping up inside u at times..lurking deep within…u r kinda scared to discus them…even with urself..
u c we all have basically lost to fate….whether we admit it or not…we have kindda given up…now we are happy with wat we have bcos we are scared by wat we might lose..we ar not actually happy with wat we have…we r just happy that we didnot end up worse…(yaar..yaha tak toh pahuchey..yaha nahi hotey toh kahi k nahi hotey !)

this is where WE R WRONG…this is where it gets messed up ..every1 faces a lot of trubles in their life…v get hurt all th tim.. v say what u kno u shud not have said…ppl hurt u.. every1 knows that bad guys r BAD but they get away with it and god is not justified in making it more worse for some of us than others but that duznt mean v give up…agreed most of us are not lion-hearted WINnErs..but that doesnt mean u becum a loser…there is another state in which one can b…its called a FIGHter…an idiot hu knows he is gonna loos but still fights just to see how far he can go..we all have our fights..but we often just….accept it…bcos deep within u r too tired to carry on…but thats where th real problem lies..

we think that our actual problems are the 1ce fate has given us..but actually speaking…our real problems are the ones that come because we react wrongly to wat problems fate has given us…cos..we give up

 

-> u cant escape ur problems…they r gonna follow u till ur death bed..whether ur wife/children do or dont..

-> u cant help but behave like an idiot…its lik trying to remove thorns from a fish while eating them…u can try aLLL u want…but 1 thorn is DEFINItelY gonna end up in ur tungue…
so instead of running away from our problems and fearing about how idiotic every1 will think of u .. u must face them…and not mind being an idiot..

coz even if u give up…u hd still have problems..and ppl will STill THink u r a world -class idiot ! (trust me… a lot more ppl think u r an idiot ..than u think)

CONCLUSION ( or a new Begining if u feel wat I say is tru..)
so think of wat u truely want…gather the guts to face what u dread ..and go for it….history is a testimony that men hu have done that have a higher chanc of success than men hu dont.. and after all wat in ur life has a mathematical probability of “1″..in fact even the probability that u will LIVe a life tomorrow is not 1..so be rational by being irrational…choose a path where the probability of u getting ur goal is higher than the other “path that u normally take..the safe 1..”

coz anyway u dont get to decid most things that happen to u… u don’t decide in wich part of th world u r born…or hw rich ur parents are..or with whom u fall in love with….and ALLLLLLLL these things r VERy vERY vErY important deciding factors of hw u liv ur life…..u r a slave of ur circumstance…at least try not to b a slave of ur fears and shame…and last but not the least…if u love urself…remmber love is proved by tough decisions and sacrifices not by kisses and pretenc..

Have a gud day..and ples give a thot to wat u read here…tc..